Some old article I forgot about

I was perusing through my unpublished entires and came across this anecdote probably from 3 years ago.

Not sure if it was real or not, but what caught my attention was this gem of truth:

She is glaring at me with all the moral self-righteousness that only a woman can muster up.

If I had a dollar for every time I’ve seen that trait in a woman, I’d have about $3,627.14!

Just kidding… but you know what I mean.

I’m no angel, I’ll be first to admit that; but if there’s one thing I’m proud of, is that I do not put on a facade making people think otherwise. I put my morals (or lack of them, depending on how people interpret it) right in the table the first time out. And despite the different consequences these “values” of mine garner from different people, I’m pretty sure none of them can call me out on not being a genuine person (and by “genuine” it could be “genuinely good,” or bad).

Whether one interprets as me being good or bad, it still always was, and always will be [the “true”] ME. It was never a me-during-sundays, or a me-when-in-the-company-of-group-x, a me-in-the-family, or even a me-with-my-girlfriend.

I was never morally self-righteous simply because I admit my shortcomings when it comes to that area. And I dare not have the arrogance to invoke such things knowing I have no right to do so. Ironically though, I usually find myself capable of being a far kinder person those who are [morally self-righteous]… provided of course they deserve such treatment 😉

Anyways, enough chitchat; here’s the cool story.

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Thoughts regarding blogging

I have a bunch of bloggable entries, but most of them too short – which makes them more likely candidates for some shallow twitter-esque entries than actual meaningful posts you can share with people. That’s not to say that my most of posts are of any valuable significance; but in order to explain why I personally think it isn’t enough to post one-liners, I thought I’d share how I’ve always seen the culture of blogging in context of the world wide web.

I’ve always appreciated how majority of readers take the time to visit one’s site (or clicks on one’s pane in an RSS reader) and read – as one discusses the many minutiae surrounding one’s life.

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Weekend date with my D300

So our [choir]0 went on an out of town performance / outing last weekend. Was probably the only time I got to use my brand spankin’ new cam.

The Verdict

Considering I failed to notice any learning curve from the time I started using it that morning, I really have to say that the switch to the new system was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. In fact, I could argue I really was more efficient in taking shots because of how it solved almost all my personal gripes about the previous system I had in one fell swoop. I do recall saying to myself numerous times “I fucking love this cam” when I realized I had just taken something which I knew I’d probably had more difficulty in getting when I was using my old setup.

I seriously doubt I would have experienced anything similar if I was switching the other way.

Pics here and here.

A new holiday

Got this email from Third. Wouldn’t hurt to support it.

Every 14th of February you get the chance to display your fondness for your wife or girlfriend by showering her with gifts, flowers, dinner, shows and any other baubles that women find romantic.

Secretly…guys feel left out. That’s right…left out. There’s no special holiday for the ladies to show their appreciation for the men in their life.

Men as a whole are either too proud or just too embarrassed to admit it.

This is why a new holiday has been created.

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Marry Smart

I was reading up on Nikon/Canon reviews and one thing led to another and found this little gem of advice for us males with regards to marriage:

Marry Smart

This isn’t about marrying someone rich; that’s marrying well.

Marrying smart means to marry someone as cheap as you are.

Your woman is always in charge. If she’s as silly with her money as most people, after you’re married, you can forget about having any money ever again.

A woman’s job is to spend your money. If she hasn’t shown that she can spend her own money well, she certainly won’t spend yours any better.

I got lucky with my wife. She’s even cheaper than I am, but she’s rare.

Want to know how cheap she is? She hates flowers because she can’t bear knowing that they die in a week and then the money is gone. She’d rather just have the money. I sometimes leave a $20 on the counter. When she asks “what’s this?” I respond “flowers.” She then gets all smiley.

Marriage is weird.

Though, as wierd as it is, it’s quite appealing to someone like me. I’m pretty cheap as well (contrary to popular belief) I just think some investments are more valuable than others; I’d sooner get my GF a boxed set of a series of books she likes than flowers simply because they last.